fayfay小沙龍

在情人節這天  不管有沒有人約

都一定要裝忙 

才不會顯得行情不好  哈哈~

今天  一早就收到同學祝我情人節快樂的mail

讓我想假裝不記得今天是七夕都不行啊~T^T(淚~)



前一陣子

一位男性友人Y來找我

說他跟女朋友分手了

好痛苦 

常常要戒酒消愁

我說  放心吧  時間會治癒一切的痛 (拍肩!~)

你要在愛情中受傷成長  才能成為一個好男人啊 (再用力拍肩!~)

三個月後  你會連她的手機號碼都記不得了

人  就是如此健忘


Y說  他最不甘心的是

他對她這麼好! 她怎麼可以甩了他呢?

我懂  我完全了解

許多時候  分手的痛苦  其實不完全是因為失去了所愛的人

而是痛惜於自己曾經付出的時間. 精神. 勞力 和金錢  全付諸流水 

不習慣  身邊少了另一個人的體溫 


愛情這東西就是不講道理  沒有公平 

愛情的天平從來無法真正的平衡

總有一方愛得多一點

在愛情權力關係中

付出比較多的一方  注定要受苦啊


愛情的勝負  究竟如何定?

被愛固然幸福 

但  惟有愛人  才能以在熱情與失落 快樂與感傷之間 

真真切切感受到自己還有顆血熱跳動的心

這才真正是愛的收穫吧



在沒有情人的情人節 
  
我為明戀  暗戀  單戀的大家 

點播一首Bryan Adams的歌

  

Look into my eyes

You will see what you mean to me

Search your heart, search your soul

And when you find me there

you'll search no more

Don't tell me it's not worth trying for

You can't tell me it's not worth dying for

You know it's true

Everything I do, I do it for you

Look into your heart

You will find there's nothing there to hide

Take me as I am, take my life

I would give it all I would sacrifice

Don't tell me it's not worth fighting for

I can't help it, there's nothing I want more

You know it's true

Everything I do, I do it for you.

There's no love like your love

And no other could give more love

There's nowhere unless you're there

All the time, all the way

Oh! You can't tell me it's not worth trying for

I can't help it, there's nothing I want more

I would fight for you, I'd die for you

You know it's true

Everything I do,  I do it for you. 



延伸閱讀

The missing piece & Eternal flame (<---點下去)

PS
 
後來Y和女友復合了

是女友要求復合的

於是  他們的愛情權力關係  現在完全倒過來了(笑)